Manly Sex Talk - Truth is hot

I have realized that in my calming of sexual self and understanding of sexual self that honesty is hot. I love to hear what my partner is feeling, liking, not liking. I love to hear what is happening and mostly when they are connected and when they need space. It is essential to my sexual enjoyment that I do not have to worry about the other persons reality. I need to let go and in order to do that I need to not be guessing what the other is doing or going through. Does not mean i do not want to read their body language or I want them telling me every little detail, I like so clear truth and honesty. It goes a long way to making the experience peaceful and connected.