Friday, 28 December 2012

Fierce Love


I'm coming


My heart is on its way....


Fierce Love is who I am

Fierce love is what I bring to the table

Fierce love is what I give to you

Fierce love is at my core

Brace yourself. No more gentle love....

No more delicate dancing

No more holding back

I realize FIERCE LOVE from my heart to this universe. 

I love you all Fiercely 

Saturday, 22 December 2012

Christmas opinion

In the West we have Christmas. I know we are all encouraged to offer a happy holidays and not mention Christmas, but in my world and all I see is that Christmas affects everyone in the West. Holidays, school closures, special foods, traveling, stores, decorations and Santa reign loud and clear.

So in honoring my ancestry, who celebrated Christmas for many years I want to offer my perspective on the whole event.

Christmas is about celebrating the birth of Jesus. It is a religious holiday. It is what it is.

So in celebrating the birth of someone, their birthday, I want to honor them as I would honor anyone.

How to honor Jesus..... Well all the man talked about was loving yourself, forgiveness, loving your neighbors, letting go of possessions building community. He was a peaceful person who built community at all cost. He believed in tribal values, he did not care of rank or religion or financial position.

I never really thought it was honorable to turn Jesus into a deity. He is not a God in my books, he is a wonderful man who gave up everything for what he believed in. Ghandi once said that he wishes he had the resolve that Jesus, the man, had.

So to honor the person that was Jesus, I say lets come together. Put down the competitive needs. Work together, not giving people stuff but by forgiving, listening, loving, opening, helping, risking for your community.

Maybe we start by asking ourselves.... who is part of my community and how can I help them be stronger?

Merry Community Building people. Its what this season is all about.

Saturday, 15 December 2012

I believe

It is time to believe in something better. A world where we can be open and be who we are without prejudice or judgement. A world where we can trust the people we live and work with. A world where we can heal together. It is possible.

I commit my life to this type of world. Where we work together not for each other or ourselves. Not a communist state but a community. Where our children have many parents, many friends and many safe houses to go to. Where we have support, love and laughter permeating through the walls of our homes. A world where we have plenty and share with everyone and we see that we sill have plenty for years to come. 

It is time where we believe that bosses and authority are no longer needed. We slowly remove hierarchy from our culture and look at everyone as importnat and no one as more or less important. It is time to see that we are all the same, we are all one.

Buck up people. Let go of the separation  the fear, the blame, the fight to be right. It is worthless and a waste of time. It is time to love and honor and be free in your heart. 

Saturday, 1 December 2012

Manly Sex Talk : Making her cum above yours

Makes sense to me. Her cumming is far more valuable then the guys cumming. It is usually easier for a guy to cum and more wasteful. Females orgasm is important to her health and to yours. A male gets a lot out of being in or around a female when she orgasms.

I am not about inner orgasms for men. There are some traditions where men are taught not to ejaculate but to turn the energy inward. Mantak Chia is an author and leading expert on such techniques. I have learned a great deal from him and would encourage every person to read his literature and lessons.

What I have taken is that I do not have to ejaculate every time I have sex. In fact if I reserve my energy and ejaculate once or twice a week, the other times I am intimate I am very engaged. I have energy, a good hard erection, desire and I get so much from my partner orgasm.

Try it sometimes guys. Bring your lady to orgasm and don't worry about your own. Cut your ejaculations down and focus on the experience and not the end result.

Sex is a marathon, not a race. relax, enjoy the ride and think outside of your box, think of her box....

Sharing something for fun.....

This piece was presented as Kurt Vonnegut's commencement address at MIT in 1997. It's great stuff, but apparently it wasn't written or delivered by Vonnegut. It's still a beautiful piece...

Ladies and gentlemen of the class of '97:
Wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.
But trust me on the sunscreen.