Fierce Love

Ready?

I'm coming

Ready?

My heart is on its way....

Ready?

Fierce Love is who I am

Fierce love is what I bring to the table

Fierce love is what I give to you

Fierce love is at my core

Brace yourself. No more gentle love....

No more delicate dancing

No more holding back

I realize FIERCE LOVE from my heart to this universe. 

I love you all Fiercely 

Christmas opinion

In the West we have Christmas. I know we are all encouraged to offer a happy holidays and not mention Christmas, but in my world and all I see is that Christmas affects everyone in the West. Holidays, school closures, special foods, traveling, stores, decorations and Santa reign loud and clear.

So in honoring my ancestry, who celebrated Christmas for many years I want to offer my perspective on the whole event.

Christmas is about celebrating the birth of Jesus. It is a religious holiday. It is what it is.

So in celebrating the birth of someone, their birthday, I want to honor them as I would honor anyone.

How to honor Jesus..... Well all the man talked about was loving yourself, forgiveness, loving your neighbors, letting go of possessions building community. He was a peaceful person who built community at all cost. He believed in tribal values, he did not care of rank or religion or financial position.

I never really thought it was honorable to turn Jesus into a deity. He is not a God in my books, he is a wonderful man who gave up everything for what he believed in. Ghandi once said that he wishes he had the resolve that Jesus, the man, had.

So to honor the person that was Jesus, I say lets come together. Put down the competitive needs. Work together, not giving people stuff but by forgiving, listening, loving, opening, helping, risking for your community.

Maybe we start by asking ourselves.... who is part of my community and how can I help them be stronger?

Merry Community Building people. Its what this season is all about.

I believe

It is time to believe in something better. A world where we can be open and be who we are without prejudice or judgement. A world where we can trust the people we live and work with. A world where we can heal together. It is possible.

I commit my life to this type of world. Where we work together not for each other or ourselves. Not a communist state but a community. Where our children have many parents, many friends and many safe houses to go to. Where we have support, love and laughter permeating through the walls of our homes. A world where we have plenty and share with everyone and we see that we sill have plenty for years to come. 

It is time where we believe that bosses and authority are no longer needed. We slowly remove hierarchy from our culture and look at everyone as importnat and no one as more or less important. It is time to see that we are all the same, we are all one.

Buck up people. Let go of the separation  the fear, the blame, the fight to be right. It is worthless and a waste of time. It is time to love and honor and be free in your heart. 

Manly Sex Talk : Making her cum above yours

Makes sense to me. Her cumming is far more valuable then the guys cumming. It is usually easier for a guy to cum and more wasteful. Females orgasm is important to her health and to yours. A male gets a lot out of being in or around a female when she orgasms.

I am not about inner orgasms for men. There are some traditions where men are taught not to ejaculate but to turn the energy inward. Mantak Chia is an author and leading expert on such techniques. I have learned a great deal from him and would encourage every person to read his literature and lessons.

What I have taken is that I do not have to ejaculate every time I have sex. In fact if I reserve my energy and ejaculate once or twice a week, the other times I am intimate I am very engaged. I have energy, a good hard erection, desire and I get so much from my partner orgasm.

Try it sometimes guys. Bring your lady to orgasm and don't worry about your own. Cut your ejaculations down and focus on the experience and not the end result.

Sex is a marathon, not a race. relax, enjoy the ride and think outside of your box, think of her box....